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Passover: Welcome to the Household

The Hebrew month of Nisan begins March 16 and concludes on April 14.  In the middle of the month, at the first site of the full moon on March 30, begins the first night of Passover, or Pesach.

From generation to generation, this night is set apart to memorialize God's deliverance of our ancestors from slavery in Egypt (Exodus 12:14).  Everyone who comes to the table is welcome to take part in the meal and the joyous celebration. 

Jewish Survival

Many prominent Jewish voices have cast intermarriage as one of the great threats to Jewish survival in America. One editorial cited it as one reason why "particularly young Jews – have been falling by the wayside…"¹ A study on the Jewish population of greater Philadelphia, just released in January, suggests more attention is needed to the impact of intermarriage on "a steep decline in Jewish children in the area."²

Hope for Jewish Gentile Couples in 2010

During the first week of this month, we celebrated the joy of a lifecycle event.  It was the naming ceremony for a little baby girl named Aviva.  We introduced her to a community of loving Jews and Gentiles who celebrated the promise of her new life.  We welcomed her into the household of Israel.

Resolving the December Dilemma

I don't know where I first heard the term "December dilemma," but it accurately describes a Jewish conundrum at this time of year. It refers to the cross-cultural tension that intermarried, specifically Jewish-Gentile couples and their children, experience at the winter holiday season.

Many intermarried couples find these days particularly distressing. Familiar cultural symbols seem to scratch across the grain of a partner's ideal for celebrating the season.

Responses to Jewish Intermarriage

I want to review some typical responses to Jewish intermarriage that prevail today in the hope that it will provide some understanding about Jewish-Gentile couple relations.  Hopefully, some readers will have an added perspective on their own intermarriage, inter-dating or cohabiting relations.

Is Intermarriage Good or Bad for the Jews?

A recent PARADE magazine national poll on spirituality reported that 82 percent of Americans would consider marrying someone of a different faith. At the same time, 78 percent said they would never think of converting to another religion.¹

While Americans are evidently quite relaxed about the issue of inter-faith marriage, world Jewry is not. In the Jewish context, the question is usually framed, "Is intermarriage good or bad for the Jews?"

When a Child Has Two Cultures

All culture is learned. It is the accumulation of intentional lessons and incidental influences in the life of every child. That process is all the more complicated when there are two distinct ethnicities in a home.

In 2004, I published findings from a research survey of challenges that were reported by Jewish-Gentile couples.  One of the more significant sources of intermarriage tension came out of the enculturation of children.

What's the Matter with Intermarriage?

Actually, don't be misled by this title. This isn't an article against intermarriage. It is just that there are so many issues related to Jewish-Gentile couples in the news these days.

I just got back from Israel and have been catching up on my reading. I keep a Google search on issues related to Jewish-Gentile couples. July was an interesting month.

Meet Stephen and Laura Katz: How I Married a Shiksa Goddess

Laura Vesanen was raised in a strong Christian home, but in high school decided to run away from God. After graduation, she thought the best place to be "safe from Jesus" was in the arms of a Jewish boyfriend, Stephen Katz. But she didn't know that Stephen was about to begin a spiritual search that would lead him to the conclusion that Jesus is the Messiah!